Control is this sneaky sticky substance that is hard to notice (even more-so in yourself), because it is camouflaged to blend in with your usual. The purpose of control is to get to where you wanna get to. Control is like an invisible layer wrapped around...
Many years ago it was a conscious choice of mine to step out of my fear of commitment. I could have forever avoided deep authentic intimacy - instead I chose to dive into the vulnerability and fragility of my heart and allow myself to be...
So many of my female clients complain about men who are emotionally unavailable. Men who cannot meet them, who cannot understand their feelings, nor dive into the depths that they long for. Have you ever noticed how these kind of experiences become part of the internal...
Everything always works out. Even when it doesn't...
Last year I chose to be in conscious celibacy for 6 months. My intention was to align the voice of my heart and the voice of my sexuality - for them to speak the same language. Probably everyone of us has experienced that these two...
In all of human history there have been wars against “the other”. Wars against the natives, the other religions, beliefs, skin-colours, women - and the list goes on. There is this psychological trick of creating a common enemy that somehow makes people feel more that...
Many years ago it was a conscious choice of mine to step out of my fear of commitment. I could have forever avoided deep authentic intimacy - instead I chose to dive into the vulnerability and fragility of my heart and allow myself to be...
The pleasure you are able to experience with another, depends on the sexual connection you have with yourself. I strongly believe that exploring yourself, your body, and knowing EXACTLY what turns you on, is an essential key to having a greater orgasmic capacity when navigating...
My first tantric experience happened right after I walked away from an abusive relationship. At the time I was so broken down - spiritually and emotionally - that my survival mechanism of denial kicked in. I was in denial of how hurt and unstable I...
The warrior is the one who needs to be challenged. The warrior has to overcome, accomplish and feel acknowledged for it. The bigger the task, the better they feel. There’s an aspect to the warrior that is essential for progression and growth. Though, it could be...
