In the time I lived in Australia, I went on my first solo adventures throughout the country. During one of those trips I went up north to the rainforest. What seemed to be a pretty standard route for any 19 year old, somehow changed the...
Oxytocin -- a hormone released by the pituitary gland (notably during both orgasm and childbirth) -- is known to affect our behavior. It promotes bonding, sometimes to the extent of making us conformists. Researchers in Germany suspected that a dose of the so-called "love hormone"...
Love is like a striptease. Layer by layer more you reveal more of yourself to the other. First they get to know your external beauty, your laughter, the sound of your voice, and the general ways you like to move. And as time passes, you strip...
Your gǝnitals are a reflection of who you are. The shape, the flavour, the scent and especially how it feels - is a direct representation of where you are at in relation to yourself. When you dare to listen a little closer, there's a lot...
So many people believe they have to heal before they are ready for a true partnership. I see this as a very intelligent protection mechanism of the heart. ⠀ It appears respectful, but if you look a little closer, it actually states you are unworthy of such...
Hypothetically, let’s say that your past experiences show the results of people who are less than trustworthy. You long for trusting connections, and somehow believe that “one day” it will just magically appear. But even when there are hunches of these kinda moments, you poke...
My heart yearns for your embrace⠀ To fall apart in your arms ⠀ And cry a waterfall of pleasure and pain⠀ My deepest desire⠀ And greatest fear⠀ Mixed in this yearning of my heart⠀ For you⠀ For you to look at me⠀ Right into my soul ⠀ In silence⠀ And feel the depth of the...
Do you truly trust yourself? If so, why do you feel the need to prove to your partner you are trustworthy by changing your behaviour? It is so common for people to try to secure the walls of the relationship, instead of building a strong foundation....
Control is this sneaky sticky substance that is hard to notice (even more-so in yourself), because it is camouflaged to blend in with your usual. The purpose of control is to get to where you wanna get to. Control is like an invisible layer wrapped around...
Many years ago it was a conscious choice of mine to step out of my fear of commitment. I could have forever avoided deep authentic intimacy - instead I chose to dive into the vulnerability and fragility of my heart and allow myself to be...
