So many people believe they have to heal before they are ready for a true partnership. I see this as a very intelligent protection mechanism of the heart. ⠀ It appears respectful, but if you look a little closer, it actually states you are unworthy of such...
Do you truly trust yourself? If so, why do you feel the need to prove to your partner you are trustworthy by changing your behaviour? It is so common for people to try to secure the walls of the relationship, instead of building a strong foundation....
Control is this sneaky sticky substance that is hard to notice (even more-so in yourself), because it is camouflaged to blend in with your usual. The purpose of control is to get to where you wanna get to. Control is like an invisible layer wrapped around...
So many of my female clients complain about men who are emotionally unavailable. Men who cannot meet them, who cannot understand their feelings, nor dive into the depths that they long for. Have you ever noticed how these kind of experiences become part of the internal...
Many years ago it was a conscious choice of mine to step out of my fear of commitment. I could have forever avoided deep authentic intimacy - instead I chose to dive into the vulnerability and fragility of my heart and allow myself to be...
The warrior is the one who needs to be challenged. The warrior has to overcome, accomplish and feel acknowledged for it. The bigger the task, the better they feel. There’s an aspect to the warrior that is essential for progression and growth. Though, it could be...
Everything is instant nowadays, so why not love? When you open your phone you have instant access to news, information, the lives of friends and people you don’t even know. There is an instant answer to nearly everything you may want, and you can have it...
ONCE UPON A TIME I WAS 16 + READY FOR MARRIAGE He wasn’t my first, but he was definitely my first true love. We met in the supermarket where we both worked at the time. He had already developed a crush on me before I even noticed...
So many of us are addicted to love. Not the Hollywood type of happily-ever-after romance. But more the kind you would find in series. You know, those endless episodes in which the tension just builds and builds. The excitement - that’s what we’re after. That’s...
What truly impresses me Is when you stop trying to impress me Get rid of those fancy words Or how you try to prove your wisdom Let go of the stories of strength If you cannot reveal your softness Without your story I cannot meet you half way So give me a taste...
