Nalaya | Tantric Alignment for Her
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Tantric Alignment for Her




Your tantric life force is the energy that allows you keep your balance in the midst of all that you are feeling. This is your power as a woman. Bringing this energy into alignment means you open up to a deep sense of guidance coming from your emotions, sensations and intuition. Ultimately this leads to greater understanding of self – which in turn allows true connection, intimacy and love to enter your life.


Your tantric nature consists of a feminine and a masculine principle. Your shamanic nature consists of Earth, Air, Fire and Water. When you combine these you will understand in clarity and accuracy the unique combination that is YOU. You will know which qualities keep you balanced, and how to use them in daily life for a deeper sense of connection.


❖    You are ready to let go of unhealthy attachments to past relationships
❖    You wanna let go of habits that cause you to feel depleted and overwhelmed
❖    You desire sincere love and an authentic intimate partnership
❖    You want to establish a healthy balance in your current relationships
❖    You get overstimulated easily and find it hard to navigate your feelings
❖    You desire to feel secure within your sensitivity, and learn to express your truth and power
❖    You want to have healthy boundaries without the need to protect yourself or shut down
❖    You want to let go of shame, guilt, insecurities and any hidden blockages that are preventing conscious sexual expansion
❖    You are ready to fully love your body and all the qualities that make you YOU
❖    You want to live life with more trust, less control, and find pleasure in the art of surrender!


❖    Embody your sensitivity and be honoured for it
❖    Know how to navigate the feminine expression of your sexuality
❖    Know your boundaries and voice them respectfully
❖    Feel confident in expressing your feelings in a way that is clear and grounded
❖    Feel secure in how you make your choices regarding intimacy and men
❖    Have the tools in your pocket to know how to interact with a man that automatically leads to deeper understanding and more clarity between you
❖    Be so empowered by this new version of yourself, that attracting love is merely a natural consequence of the goodness you already feel from within
❖    Know how to consciously use your attractive nature fearlessly
❖    Absolutely open to receive! (With the same ease as you usually GIVE to others)
❖    Ready to take risks for love!





The word “tantra” has been over-used and over-sexualized, so allow me clarify what my approach is. My sole interest is for you to feel deeply connected and to live life empowered by your heart that is willing to interact with life – whatever experiences it may bring. The focus of this 4 month program is intimacy. Of course this includes pleasure, orgasmic expansion, don’t worry. I just wanna make clear we focus on everything else that is preventing that deep tantric experience. That’s the only way your TANTRIC ALIGNMENT can been empowering and ever-lasting.


❖    Two intimacy coaching session via Skype
❖    Audio recordings with personalised reflections afterwards
❖    Rituals and exercises to assist the integration of each element
❖    Two check in moments (via email or voice recording)
❖    Optional additional shamanic energy healing session
❖    In essence: we will connect on a weekly basis in different forms
❖    The duration of each session may vary depending on your needs
❖    You can reach out to me whenever you need extra support
❖    100% Guarantee your needs are always met

EARTH – Step #1 of Tantric Alignment

Earth sets the foundation of your journey ahead. Without a stable foundation you cannot expect more pleasure to magically be part of life. Your body holds an intelligence and a memory. It is in your blood, your bones, and connects you to your ancestors as well as past sexual relations. Here we will eliminate any unhealthy attachments to the past that are holding you back.

AIR – Step #2 of Tantric Alignment

Your voice, your words, your vibration determine the signature of who you are and therefore – what you attract. This is the basic principle of the law of attraction. In this layer you will understand how interconnected your sexual centre and your voice are. We will work with breath, movement, sound and other exercises that will empower your alignment with your creator self.

FIRE – Step #3 of Tantric Alignment

Fire is touch. To be touched in your heart. Beyond physical touch. What does it require to truly allow yourself to be touched by another? Fire is also passionate, angry, intense, orgasmic, creative, and so much more. In this layer we will experiment with your field of expansion and attraction. This will be fully integrated with your personally needs when we reach this layer. Love, purpose, health, money, etc.

WATER – Step #4 of Tantric Alignment

Your senses and emotions hold a great intelligence. A resistance to pain, will also resist pleasure. When truly and deeply allow yourself to feel it all, you will begin to flow through life. This layer is about opening up to the unknown and a greater sense of TRUST. What does it require to deeply feel it all? And how will that guide you to be surprised by life? In unexpected pleasurable ways.


Paulina Nejman

Over an extended period of time I did 1:1 coaching sessions with Nalaya – and I couldn’t recommend them more! The transformation that has occurred during these months is actually pretty amazing! The fact that we are located on the opposite sides of the globe does not impinge on the effectiveness of her healing. After each session she sends her recordings via WhatsApp, and that’s how we communicate. Her profound insights and unparalleled guidance in physical and spiritual matters help me dig deeper into myself and peel off layers that reveal the underlying cause of my issues. I’m forever grateful for having this magical, gifted soul guiding me through my life! Read more…

Victoria Lozar

The sessions with Nalaya have literally changed my life. Her incredible sense of awareness, her sensibility and her clear guidance have provided me with a safe space to let go of energies and patterns that wouldn’t serve me anymore and help me raise my vibration and become more of who I actually am. The sessions had an incredible deep effect, and provoked a big shift in my life and relationships. I was looking for a guide and coach already for a long time but couldn’t find anyone until Nalaya popped up and I am glad she did. I can recommend you deeply from my heart to work with her if you need some support or guidance in a process and I can guarantee you that it will be empowering and liberating! Read more…

Rebecca Pooley

Working with Nalaya was truly transformative in so many ways! Through online sessions and distance energy healing, the process flowed so naturally, and the end result, for me, was tangible change. I could honestly say ‘I’m ready for what comes next’! Her compassion, knowledge, intuition and capacity to communicate meant I felt supported and seen every step of the way. With such a big heart, her humbleness, reverence and sense of fun made it a joy to work with Nalaya in this deep space. Having someone as grounded, loving and truthful as Nalaya as a support in my transformative process is a beautiful gift I am very grateful for. Read more…


This 30-minute free session is intended to give us the opportunity to get to know each other. You have the liberty to ask any question before we get started. And it’ll give me clear insight of what your intentions exactly are, as well as help you navigate to become even clearer.


NOTE: This session can only be booked once. It’s a special offer for newcomers.


This is an individual session, customised according to your needs. It includes an online coaching session, and a recorded reflection afterwards to assist your integration process.


Duration: 2 hours


As described above, one month per element. We will take conscious and committed steps in the direction of the heart of your intention.




❖    Two intimacy coaching session via Skype
❖    Audio recordings with personalised reflections afterwards
❖    Rituals and exercises to assist the integration of this element
❖    Two check in moments per month (via email or voice recording)
❖    In essence: we will connect on a weekly basis in different forms
❖    The duration of each session may vary depending on your needs
❖    You can reach out to me whenever you need extra support
❖    100% Guarantee your needs are always met


This package is the full 4-month journey through all four elements for the complete Tantric Alignment within you. This package will allow you full embodiment of what that means, and allow you to feel ultimately connected.



I highly respect your sincere connection to your own intention. A commitment to the complete journey of 4 months takes courage and willpower. For that I gift you a discount of €279! Instead of €1988, you only pay €1709!




This session is optional. I highly recommend to integrate a Shamanic Energy Session when you are touching the core of something very important. A Shamanic Energy Session is energising, uplifting, will give great perspective on unseen details. Overall it brings you in to balance on a whole new level. Click here to read more about what this entails.


When you have chosen to do the full “Tantric Alignment” you will get a 20% discount on any Shamanic Energy Session. Contact me personally to confirm.



This session is highly recommended. It serves as a recap of everything after the complete journey of 4 months, 4 elements. This session is intended to polish the edges and to ensure that you continue your path with great clarity, confidence and openness.



Please contact met personally to discuss the option of customising the journey we take together. Depending on your needs and wishes, we will design a package that suites the unique being you are. Write me on and we’ll take it from there.



Nalaya is an intimacy life-coach, healer and retreat facilitator. She has been traveling the world since birth (literally), which has given her a very unique voice and approach to the art of intimacy and connection.


Nalaya was born in The Netherlands, raised in several countries, travelled the world for over a decade, and is now residing in Thailand after having lived in the Sacred Valley of Peru for 5 years.


Her work is inspired by the many cultures that have shaped her. And she simply has a very refined way of connecting to energy, which is noticeable in anything she creates.


She has trained in India (where she also lived for 5 years) with various masters from the Siddha lineage and received initiations into Shaktipat, Kundalini and other Tantric Traditions.


Her sessions and courses are inspired by a variety of intensive trainings she did in Asia, India, as well as Europe. Later, she worked with shamans in Peru, Ecuador and Colombia. All from various tribal traditions.


It’s rare to come across someone who shares the wisdom of her pains and pleasures with such openness, authenticity, as well as a humble willingness to continue growing herself.


Nalaya has worked with thousands of clients from all over the world. She implements a unique mixture of tantric techniques based on shamanic principles. The power of her work can be experienced in personalised 1:1 sessions, online courses and the intimate retreats she organises annually (which will commence again when the pandemic ends).


Nalaya is one of the rare souls who holds the secrets to manifesting true love.

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